What could be the saddest feeling in this world? To be ignored by others as if your presence never really mattered. Imagine you are standing in a crowd where at least ten people walk past you each passing minute. You notice their presence but no one is interested in you.
You may now wonder if feeling neglected among the crowd is easy.No one particularly cares about anyone when you are standing among the crowd. I agree, but now let us change the scenario.
Now imagine you’re hanging out with your friends. There shouldn’t be any presence of unfamiliarity then why do you feel you are constantly ignored by others? A feeling of sadness is crushing your soul.
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You feel that you are being overlooked by everyone in the crowd.Your friends may not have a single clue about the turbulence inside your mind. Inside you cannot shake the feeling that you are unwelcomed, unaccepted and unimportant to the people around you.
Loneliness slowly takes you over and crushes your soul completely. The urge to live fades away from your life. You are now stuck in a dark room while completely clueless about your escape. All you wish for is a light that will guide you out of your misery.
If you ever felt this soul-crushing feeling you would relate to each sentence of this article and if you are going through this feeling don’t worry, you are not alone. Each person has felt this mix of sad, disappointed and lonely emotions in his or their life. And if you ever feel lonely, here are some quotes that will help you to ease off your mind a little bit.
1. “Nobody likes feeling invisible to the one they think about constantly.” – Unknown
No one, absolutely no one in this world wants to be lonely. We as human beings are meant to be co-dependent on others. No matter how much we try to live our lives completely by ourselves, at the end of the day, we all crave for someone’s presence to soothe our souls.
Life without them feels completely incomplete. Your special person can fill your life with happiness and rainbows but the wrong person can turn your life into a living hell. So be careful about selecting the special person in your life, no one wants to feel ignored and especially by someone who is constantly on your mind. That feeling is much more dangerous than being ignored by others.
2. “I’m sick of feeling worthless, nothing, invisible & not important to you.” – Unknown
The thought of being invisible to others can push you to the depths of depression where you won’t find your escape. You may not realize how dangerous this feeling can be. At one moment you are smiling and at the next, you are feeling empty. Do not let this feeling get inside your head.
You are not worthless. You are not a failure or a liability. Your presence is important so don’t let that feeling tell you otherwise. God has curated a plan for everyone in his life. Trust him and trust the path that you have taken. Your path may be long but it will surely lead you towards your destination.
3. “That feeling when you’re not necessarily sad, but you just feel empty.” – Unknown
There’s a difference between feeling sad and feeling empty. Emptiness is dangerous. It could be addicting as well as extremely dangerous. You may get comfortable inside your void but staying there for too long will shake your mind.
You won’t even realize the destruction that has fallen on your life. No amount of happiness can ever fill that emptiness in your life. It is a void that will eat you up until nothing is left for you.
4. “Ignore me, I don’t care. I’m used to it anyways, I’m invisible.”– Unknown
Once you reach that stage where you adapt to the feeling of invisibility, nothing can ever surprise you anymore. You have now grown to the feeling of emptiness. You have been way too comfortable with your void. All you can recognize is sadness and nothing more. You have gained power and a curse at the same time because now you are – invisible. No one would care about your actions (gift) and presence (curse).
5. “Invisibility can be good as a superpower. But psychiatry reveals people don’t like it very much.” – Joyce Rachelle
Being invisible is a superpower that we all wished for in our life. To escape from everyone’s eyes sure feels like a dream. No one would bother you about their unnecessary advice. You could live your life freely just like the way you want. While being invisible may sound cool but in reality, it is devasting.
Each human being wants to establish their presence and leave a mark behind. Recognition is the truest desire of each human being. In a world where everyone runs after recognition, being invisible can be the greatest despair in anyone’s life.
6. “It would be too easy to say that I feel invisible. Instead, I feel painfully visible, and entirely ignored.” – David Levithan
When we talk about being invisible, it does not signify in the literal sense. People can notice us but somehow, we feel that we are been ignored by them. It feels as if no one is interested in us and our whereabouts. If they do not bother about our presence then surely, they won’t bother about our absence as well.
7. “Feeling invisible is something you create in your mind. You see it in the mirror, you hear it in your voice, but it’s not real.” – Unknown
You see we live in this illusion that we are invisible because people around us feel unwelcomed about our presence. But the truth is we have created this whole illusion inside our minds by ourselves.
You cannot blame others for your loneliness. The voice that is inside your head has convinced you that you are worthless, a failure and a liability which is why people around you chose to ignore your presence.
Do not listen to that voice. It is just a voice, if you choose to ignore it won’t bother you anymore. Remember none of this is real, it is all in your head. You are valued by your closed ones. It is just that the voice has kept a mirror in front of you that is preventing you to see reality.
8. “But most days, I wander around feeling invisible. Like I’m a speck of dust floating in the air that can only be seen when a shaft of light hits it.” – Sonya Sones
The days where you feel invisible are the days wasted on overthinking and absurd thoughts. Eventually, no one should ever go through this feeling. If you feel that you are been ignored by your loved ones, then you are completely wrong about it. They may not have the single clue about your misery.
Let them in and share your thoughts. Don’t be a speck of dust that can only be seen when a shaft of light hits them. You are valued and loved by your close ones. Do not let this feeling get interrupted by your negative thoughts.
9. “Maybe it’s just me… Or Maybe I’m just not good enough to get to know… Maybe I’m just not the most fun or outgoing… Or Maybe I’m just not likeable. No matter what I do. I’m just tired of feeling invisible.” – Unknown
The voice that is inside your head is poisoning your mind with toxic thoughts. Why would you let that voice decide your worth? And why can you see that this is just an illusion, none of it is real. You are loved, and valued and are capable of achieving greater success in your life.
10. “Maybe one day I will be important to everyone like they are to me, that would be nice… because I’m getting so lonely and I feel invisible. I’m trying so hard to stay positive…” – Unknown
When you feel that you are invisible it becomes difficult to keep up with a positive attitude. Moreover, optimism feels like a burden for you. Positivity tastes like poison. You feel your energy being drained out of your body. Your dead spirit is now trapped inside your living body.
All you wish for this feeling to end as soon as possible. eventually, you hope for that day to arrive when you could live freely without any worries.
11. “When they feel invisible, it’s easy for them to leave.” – Beverly L. Kaye
If you are invisible, you know your presence has lost its importance. Your disappearance will become. Moreover, you will live like a shadow among the crowd. Don’t worry for now because the day will arrive where everyone will miss your presence.