The term‘ findom’ may sound completely new to most people, but the term has been around for quite a long time. Findom, which stands for Financial Domination, is another variant of BDSM. It is a fetish which involves the transfer of money from the submissive to the dominant as an act of ultimate submission. To put it in simple words, men put their financial decisions into the hands of another woman.
They may sound similar to the term referred to as ‘Sugar Daddy/Mommy’, but trust me, they are quite different on their own. Someone who is involved in a findom relationship does not share any kind of sexual activity. The act of exchange of money is quite pleasant for the involved parties. In most cases, both parties do not even meet with each other.
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Occasionally the men while asking those unknown women to talk in a harsh tone, insult them or even blackmail them as well.
Now you might wonder why someone would willingly hand over their financial decisions into the hands of a stranger. There can be many reasons, but the most important one of them is – a strange fetish. Is there a reason why some people are attracted to the feet of another person? No, right? We conclude them as ‘strange fetishes’. Similarly, findom relationships are also considered as someone’s weird fetish.
One of the most interesting facts about such a relationship is that the submissive person won’t expect anything in exchange for their money. It is considered an act of ultimate submission, devotion and dedication.
The amount of money that each of the financial dominatrix earns depends on the set that she has with her submissive. It could vary from a one-time payment to weekly/monthly payments.
Most of the men find a thrill, while others view this as an escape from their own world and enter into the world of freedom. They sacrifice their own resources for the betterment of someone they perceive as their superior. The whole relationship is based on the exchange of power. Sometimes such types of fetishes’ could be tempting, but the relationship which is solely based on power and control can be quite addictive and could produce harmful results in the long run.
And if you’re still looking for something more to understand the concept behind it, then here are some quotes that will surely blow your mind.
1. “Findom isn’t a kink. It is a way of life.” – Unknown
It truly is a way of life. For some people who thrive on power, this could be their ideal lifestyle. Not only do you gain money (without any sexual activity), but you also receive power and control over someone else’s finances.
2. “When a FinDomme asks you to do something, it isn’t a suggestion.” – Unknown
In some cases, the men deliberately ask their dominant to be aggressive with them. There isn’t a place for begging or showing mercy. Whatever your FinDomme asks you to do, you have to obey her orders without interrogating further into the matter.
3. “Do you like me to blow it bit by bit or all at once? Not your c*ck silly! Your money and mind.” – Unknown
There is simply no kind of sexual activity performed between the FinDomme and their submissive. If the sexual activity was involved, it wouldn’t be a findom relationship. In most cases, all the transactions are performed online without meeting the involved parties.
4. “How far do you want me to take you? Slightly poorer, struggling or broke?” – Unknown
At first glance, it may seem quite tempting, but as in the case of any addiction, it will gradually lead to your destruction. In such cases, not only your mental peace will be destroyed, but at the same time, it will lead to the destruction of your finances as well.
5. “I don’t expect Good Morning messages. I do expect Good morning gifts!” – Unknown
Sometimes it is not all about the money. The submissive men also send some rare and expensive gifts to their FinDomme. They do not expect anything in return. They find pleasure in surrendering themselves to someone whom they perceive as their superior.
6. “ Late payment is as bad as no payment.” – Unknown
The relationship, which is based on money, will meet its end if they stop paying to their FinDomme. It may sound quite harsh and selfish, but it is what it is. Money is the only bridge that connects the relationship between the FinDomme and its submissive.
7. “You don’t need a wallet. I’ll keep your money somewhere safe.” – Unknown
Not only the FinDomme enjoys that large sum of money and extravagant gifts that they receive from their submissive, but sometimes they handle their submissive financial decisions as well.
8. “Sub: What do I get out of it?
FinDomme: You’re new to this, aren’t you?” – Unknown
If you are new to this or still have your doubts, then let me remind you something – THE SUB DO NOT RECEIVE ANYTHING. The sub does not expect that all of their dedication and devotion will be rewarded. All they have to do is to surrender and fulfil their FinDomme wishes.
9. “Sub: How can I please you?
FinDomme: Financially” – Unknown
They don’t engage themselves in intercourse or any other kind of sexual activity. The relationship starts with the exchange of money and ends if the payment stops subside. As I said, in some cases, they do not even meet. So there is no possible way to get involved in some lewd activities.
10. “If you aren’t making a sacrifice, then you are not doing this right.” – Unknown
The FinDomme demands complete control, and for that, you have to sacrifice your intellect and fear. Once you have surrendered yourself, there is no turning back. You either enjoy the thrill or suffer the consequences of your decisions.
11. “Whoever said that money can’t buy happiness clearly hadn’t given it to me” – Unknown
Money means the world to them, and money helps them to buy things that will give them happiness. Some of the FinDomme can earn up to 1 million on a day. Their whole world revolves around money. Through financial submission, one could achieve complete dominance over the other person.
12. “Money talks or I walk; you know what to do, money slave.” – Unknown
It is either you pay, or they walk away from your life, nothing in between. You can either choose to pay, or you could terminate the relationship by stopping all sorts of transactions.
13. “Obey and pay, and we will get along just fine.” – Unknown
Not only do they demand money, but at the same time, they fulfil their sub’s demand to behave in a harsh way. To some extent, they blackmail their sub to send them some money.
14. “Being owned is your calling; come and beg, and I’ll keep you paypig.” – Unknown
Constant humiliation is also part of the relationship. The FinDomme demands, argues and constantly humiliates their sub in exchange for the money. The sub enjoys the constant humiliation as well. In some cases, they demand such constant humiliation from their FinDomme.
15. “There are seven days in a week. You can tribute me on all of them.” – Unknown
You see, it is not all about the constant humiliation and money. The sub could only surrender to the one whom they consider superior to them. An engagement in any kind of sexual activity is pretty common, but not everyone can fully surrender themselves to the hands of some unknown stranger. They show their complete devotion and dedication by surrendering themselves to the hands of their FinDomme. They view their FinDomme as the ultimate one for whom they are ready to go to any lengths if required.
16. “You work hard, so I don’t have to.” – Unknown
The FinDomme doesn’t contribute anything to the relationship. Moreover, they enjoy the fruits of hard work from their sub. There is no requirement for them to give any sort of contribution to their relationship. That’s what makes it unique compared to other sorts of relationships.
I’ve refered few quotes from Findom-Mistress.